Verstappen's childhood and upbringing
- Jan 16
- 2 min read
Updated: Jan 18
Unlike many young drivers who grow up in relatively safe environments, Max's karting career was spent in an extremely rigorous, even brutal, training environment. His father, former F1 driver Jos Verstappen, had extremely high expectations for his son, demanding that Max complete every race without any mistakes, and offering almost no emotional comfort or compromise during training. Jos's training methods for Max were often described as "tough love", a love that wasn't simply scolding, but rather long-term, meticulous, and repetitive high-standard training: constantly correcting his racing line, braking points, and corner exit speeds, emphasizing "why you're slow" and "what you're not doing well enough." In Jos's eyes, no matter how bad the weather, it was never an excuse for Max's poor performance. Even more unfortunately, Max's parents divorced during that period, and his sister left home with their mother, leaving behind only the daily grind of training, his father's verbal abuse, and occasional emotional abuse.
During his karting days, Max had a teammate who had been karting for four years longer, but Jos demanded that Max achieve the same lap times as that teammate. Max, who had just started his karting career, naturally couldn't catch up with his teammate, and sometimes the gap between them widened. After the race, instead of being greeted with positive encouragement, Max was met with a barrage of insults from his father. In this environment, Max learned early on to cope with pressure independently, ignore external emotions, and focus on the result itself.

Max Verstappen and his father Jos Verstappen
A highly controversial "education"
According to Max's own recollection in an interview years later, during a karting race in 2012, he made a mistake that forced him to retire, which angered his father. On the way home, a conflict ensued. He recalled that his father refused to listen to any further explanations and abandoned him at a gas station in southern Italy (another account says it was in an open field in southern Italy), then drove back to the Netherlands alone.
In unfamiliar Italy, Max felt desperate. He managed to borrow a phone and call his mother. Upon learning of the situation, his mother called Jos, demanding he return to Italy immediately to bring Max home. However, instead of apologizing, Jos subjected Max to a week of emotional abuse.
As related reports continued to be cited and sparked controversy, Jos responded multiple times in the documentary and subsequent interviews. Contrary to Max's account, he denied ever abandoning young children in dangerous or unattended situations and objected to the simplistic characterization of his actions as "abuse." He did not deny the extreme strictness of his training methods, but explained it as a deliberate educational strategy aimed at helping children understand early on that "mistakes inevitably have consequences" in the competitive world.




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